Dear Advice Chick,
I have two questions. (1) What is the most common mistake that guys make on a first date? (2) What signs should guys look for on a date to gage whether to go for the first kiss? Is the first date too soon? Is the third date too late? Or is it just right? etc.
Advice Chick replies,
(1) The most common mistake guys make on the first date is trying too hard to make sure everything is perfect. It's admirable, but isht happen.
1.The car can break down making him arrive late.
2. He actually can leave his wallet at home.
3. He can plan inadequately, and make dinner reservations for a lobster-fest, without knowing that she doesn't eat seafood. (Happened to me a few times!)
(2) Unless the two people have a brief history with each other, or there is amazing chemistry, the first date may too soon for a first kiss. If the first date went well and the second date went well, date number two will be a good time for the first kiss. Keep in mind, it has to be natural and mutual. Also, there is nothing wrong with asking a lady, "may I kiss you?" In these "sexual-harassment" stricken times, consent should be taken into consideration.
Dear Advice Chick,
I am having an affair with an engaged man. I’m a single mom, and I’m falling hard for him. Is there a chance I might ever have him? A male friend told me that the other woman is never the only woman. Is that true? Why do I keep going after the unattainable men? This isn’t my first affair that’s ended in heartbreak. The sex is so good, the
connection seems so real. Do cheaters ever stop cheating, and does the girlfriend ever get to be the wife?
Advice Chick replies,
You have a confirmed case of self-esteem deficit. Damn dummy. This man is ENGAGED to the woman he wants to spend his life WITH, while spending a few odd minutes here and there IN you. How can you honestly expect to have him, when he has made a commitment to another woman? The other woman (YOU) may not be the only woman, but IS the lonely woman stupid enough to allow herself to become a receptacle for sperm.
You think like a whore. The sex has nothing to do with the pseudo-connection. The so called connection exists in your mind, not in reality. The only thing connecting is his meat to your slit. Whether cheaters ever stop cheating or not should be your last concern. To be honest, YOU are a cheater. You have sex with men who are not yours. You are not his girlfriend, you are his piece of a$$.
You keep going after unattainable men because you don’t know your worth. You don’t believe you deserve to be treated like a lady, but you do. STOP allowing these men to have their way with you, rinse their dykks off, and go home to wifey. Leaving you wet between the legs, and HURT in the heart.
