Dear Advice Chick,
Can you direct me to speed dating in Atlanta? Thanks.
Advice Chick replies,
I found a company that has a variety of upcoming speed dating events in the ATL. Most are full for women, but a few are still open so register ASAP!
http://www.pre-dating.com/speeddating/ATL.php
Dear Advice Chick,
I met a really nice guy and we hit it off well. He was very handsome, respectful, and fun to be around. Things were going well until we decided to take it to the physical level. He was a short man but really aggressive, which is a turn on for me. The way he was bumping and grinding up against me, I just knew my a$$ was in trouble. When the clothes finally came off, he came up real short. It was so tiny I couldn't believe it. Now I'm not a size fanatic by any means but c'mon...even Subway offers you at least 6 inches or the foot-long!
Anyway, it took him forever to get it up. He kept fumbling around trying to get it in, which became even more problematic because it kept going soft. After several failed positions changes and more flat-liners, he finally gave up. He apologized over and over again and said he was really wanted us to have a good time but he was tired from being up for nearly two day with very little sleep. I didn't want to embarrass him anymore than he already was so I just said not to worry about it. He asked if I would ever talk to him again. I said yes I would, but at the same time I feel like maybe it was me that caused his boat to flounder. Should this be my problem or his?
Advice Chick replies,
It’s his pee-pee, and it’s his erectile dysfunction(1.) issue. His apology doesn’t make sense. Why would he stay up for two days knowing that the two of you were going to finally get physical? He asked if you would, “ever talk to him again“. This leads me to believe he has asked this question before.
Soooo …. I believe it is his problem. However. Tom Arnold once said something to the effect of, *even a 747 looks small when it lands in the Grand Canyon.*
Lesson? Do your daily (at least 100) Kegel exercises(2) and you won’t have to wonder, “is it me?”
1. Erectile Dysfunction
The inability of a man to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for his sexual needs or the needs of his partner. Most men experience this at some point in their lives, usually by age 40, and are not psychologically affected by it. Some men, however, experience chronic, complete erectile dysfunction (impotence), and others, partial or brief erections. Frequent erectile dysfunction can cause emotional and relationship problems, and often leads to diminished self-esteem. Erectile dysfunction has many causes, most of which are treatable, and is not an inevitable consequence of aging.
2. Kegel exercise
: repetitive contractions by a woman of the muscles that are used to stop the urinary flow in urination in order to increase the tone of the pubococcygeal muscle especially to control incontinence or to enhance sexual responsiveness during intercourse.
