When you're single you're always imagining meeting that right person. Come on admit it, we all have our fantasies. We also incorporate our fantasies into our daily lives and imagine meeting that person who gets our heart racing and our palms sweaty at the places we go. At work, we think about it. At the
gym, we think about it. While driving, we're thinking about it. We think about it a lot!
Certainly while sitting at your local coffee shop you might look up, see someone coming in and wonder and hope. We hope for that coffee house possibility of meeting that right person. Why not? It could happen and often does! Since you aren't the only one thinking about it, chances are that person walking in is hoping for the same thing you are.
Here's a good way of increasing your possibilities. Try spending time at the same coffee shop and go at the same time every time. Most people follow routines and by following one yourself you'll likely come across the same people regularly. Regularity creates familiarity which establishes a sense of comfort that allows two people to ease into conversation.
Try not just picking up your coffee to go. There is little possibility of meeting the right person while sipping your mocha café latté on the road. In fact, if you take a hot sip while driving, you could end up with a very different possibility- an accident. So just hang out and enjoy a refill.
Eventually you may spot that certain someone who causes your heart to have a little arrhythmia. As nervous as you might be at that moment, don't freeze up. Give a friendly smile. Take a chance and even say, "Hello". You never know unless you try. If nothing comes of it, that's alright. The great thing about the coffee house is people are always walking in. There are endless coffee house possibilities!
So sit back, relax and enjoy. There is no need to rush when the coffee is good and that next customer walking in could end up being the special person you're looking for. Anything is possible at the coffee house!
About The Author- As a life & relationship coach, Devlyn has made helping people find ways to improve their lives his personal mission and passion. He is a public consultant, a private counselor, an author and creator of Tools To Life. He has hosted his own radio shows called "Tools To Life" and "Love beat" and
has been a guest on over 150 various shows. You can read his articles and advice all over the Internet. Devlyn has often been referred to as "America's Leading Life-Coach." For Free E-books and more information visit DevlynSteele.com Send Questions To: CoachSteele@ToolsToLife.com.
