Musts for Better Sex
by Nancy Fagan, M.S., ExpertLoveAdvice.com
Good sex is much more about attitude than technique. Sometimes the only
adjustment needed is a few exercises that improve the act of making love.
Although the practices below can be done alone, they are best practiced while
making love with your partner.
1. Touch and be Touched. The body is one big erogenous zone. Don't focus your
touching exclusively on the genitals, breasts, or buttocks. Let your hands
explore the more neglected areas for a greater impact on lovemaking. the feet,
for instance, are highly sensitive to touch. To see how powerful this rule can
be, the next time you make love, agree to go 30 minutes without touching the
sexual areas of the body.
2. Encourage Your Partner. To prevent worrying, 'I'm taking too long' or 'This
won't work,' partners should cheer each other on by using positive statements
such as, 'I'm enjoying this, take as long as you want.'
3. Be in the Moment. While making love, put ALL thoughts out of your head.
Instead, focus on the sensations of your five senses. When you catch your
mind drifting, bring it back.
4. Never Compare Lovers. You've learned your skills from your past, but your
partner doesn't need to hear about your schooling. Concentrate on mastering your
techniques with your current partner.
Nancy Fagan, M.S., author of “The Complete Idiot's Guide to Romance” and “Desirable Men: How to Find Them.” To read more, visit www.ExpertLoveAdvice.com.
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